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I always wonder why :
Does Guy has a defnite difference with Girl?
why must initiatives comes from guys ONLY
while girls get mad when guys aren't initiative enough
why must gifts/presents mostly come from guys only?
why must certain things be done only by guys
and girls just wait for them to be done
i dont find any reason for this
they say wad men can do doesnt mean women cant
so why the point of guy must have initiative?
both are similar,just that the organs they have are different
like anniversaries,why guys have to prepare stuffs while girls just receive them?
it think it shud be fair enough if both sides does the same thing
if guys and girls were really made to be so different
then guy's life is really ,pathetic.
*no offense,just what i think =)*